Saturday, February 6, 2010
What do you think to be a young mother? In my perception to be a young mother, you have to have a lot of courage. Lot of things need to be thinking about. What's your family and relatives opinion? What they will say? and if you are still studying, can you manage the time between studying, your husband and kids? Wow, if you can manage all those thing very well, you are really superb in managing things!
Some people may think most of the young mothers have been involved in immoral activities. Erm...got point there...most culture and religions did not allow sex before marriage. Parents usually dislike their children to have sex at young age. May be due to family's good name, economy, religion and so forth.
I admire for young mothers who manage to juggle time for study and family well because it's too hard. They are still young and in a way they still have the youthfulness in them and that is the reason why some of them ended up with divorce after few years of marriage. They lose their freedom as they are bound to their responsibility as a mother and later they will go back to their own life which they didn't manage to enjoy like what their friends experinced.
I really solute and respect them, as they are dare to take a very heavy responsibility at a very young age. And I don't think being a young mother is something disgraceful. However I don't encourage this kind of act and it is not really good option to be a young mother.
p/s: Most people have a negative image of young single mothers. How about young single fathers? =)